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CF - Scattered
Scattered
Energy and effort going in too many different directions.
The feeling of being spread too thin.
This is due in part to the "have it all - do it all" mentality of
our age. We live in an age of ever-expanding possibility which is very exciting.
At the same time, the ready availability of infinite possibility often makes
it very difficult to decide what direction is best.
The pace of potentially life-altering decisions is significantly greater than
ever before - much more than we are accustomed to. Even twenty years ago, the
number of options for jobs, travel, learning, connections to people etc. was
such that these major decisions came along at a much slower pace.
Now, you could turn on your computer in the morning and be faced with the opportunity
to go to Bermuda for a week to do Yoga for $179 if you are willing to leave
tomorrow morning.
The only solution to being scattered is a very
clear map of what is most meaningful in your life right now. This becomes
a powerful filtering mechanism. Every potential action must pass the "is
this meaningful to me right now" test- will this new possibility
serve me?
By the way, having fun and enjoying life fully can be among your most meaningful
things!
Yes, we can do a lot, but not all at once! So, you have to choose.
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